Parenting Pre-Schoolers
Subscribe to feed

About This Blog...
Tips and support for parents of pre-schoolers


Recent Posts

Other Blogs

Celebrating Christmas - Part 2
December 19, 2018

Do you feel like your children have lost the true meaning of Christmas? Are they more focused on what Santa is going to bring them than the birth of Jesus? Our children are surrounded by advertisements for the latest toy or gadget. Combine that with conversations with friends about what they're getting and toy catalogs coming in droves in the mail and you get a bad case of the gimmies!

1 Timothy 6:10 says, “ For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” We must teach our children the joy of giving rather than receiving. What better time to do this than at Christmas when we received the greatest gift of all. We have put together some tips and suggestions to help you with this large task.

First, as parents, we must take a look at ourselves and ask “what are my actions showing my children?”. Are you consumed with the latest gadgets and accumulating more stuff? If so, you are teaching your child to place their focus on these things, too. Practice what you preach. Perhaps it is time to rein in on the amount you are spending on your children this Christmas. Surveys have shown that Americans plan (on average) to spend nearly $300 per child this year! Is it any wonder that our children can become materialistic this time of year? Help your child to understand the concept of money and how much things cost. If they receive an allowance, help them to prioritize their own money. Set a limit for what they can spend and what must be saved or given.

Many children have no idea how fortunate they are because luckily, they have never known hunger or experienced not receiving gifts at Christmas. We must teach them the difference between a need and a want. Involve them in giving to someone less fortunate. Let them help to choose toys they no longer play with and donate them. Participate in mission projects with your children and talk about why you are giving back. Sponsor a child in a developing country or adopt an angel off an angel tree. Children often have empathy for other children. When they see others who are less fortunate firsthand, they may learn to appreciate what they have at home. Hebrews 13:16 says, “Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God.”

Take the time to foster positive memories this Christmas that don’t involve consumer products. Bake Christmas cookies together, drive or walk around your neighborhood and look at lights and decorations, or watch Christmas movies as a family. Do not reward them with money or treats all the time, but with praise and the gift of your time. Doing these things will create memories that they will outlast any toy and help set characteristics in them to carry into adulthood.

Filed under: Parenting Pre-Schoolers


Post A Comment

Please enter the text you
see in the image above.
(This is just so we know that you're human.)

Can't read this image? Click SUBMIT for a new image.